Chapter 258E allows a judge to issue a variety of types of court orders.  A judge can order the defendant to not abuse or harass you, not contact you in any way, to stay away from your home or work and/or to pay you money.

Can I get a harassment prevention order without telling the defendant?

The court may issue a harassment prevention order without the defendant having notice if there is a substantial likelihood of immediate danger of harassment.  Such an order is called an ex parte order.  You file a complaint form that includes an affidavit (described below) and a hearing is held right away without letting the defendant know.   You will either speak to the judge in person or, if there is not a judge in the courthouse at the time that you are there, by telephone.  The court can issue an ex parte order that can last for up to ten business days.  The court will schedule a hearing within ten business days and then notify the defendant about the ex parte order.  The defendant has a right to attend that hearing to argue that all or part of the order should not be continued. At that hearing, often referred to as the 10 day hearing, the judge will hear from you and the defendant, if the defendant appears.

The judge may also decide not to issue an ex parte order at that time. If the judge does not does not think that there is a basis to grant a harassment prevention order, the request will be denied. If the judge thinks that there is not a substantial likelihood of immediate danger of abuse, the request may be put off and a hearing set up at a later time. The defendant will be given notice of that hearing and have the right to attend that hearing. At this hearing both you and the defendant will have the right to tell the court why a harassment prevention order should or should not issue.  If the judge does not issue an ex parte order but wants to set up a hearing where the defendant will be present, you may decide not to go forward with your complaint and ask that the hearing not be scheduled.

You can request that the defendant be ordered not to abuse or harass you. This means that:

  1. The defendant shall not physically assault or threaten you.
  2. The defendant shall not do anything that makes you reasonably fear that the defendant might cause you physical harm.
  3. The defendant shall not use force or a threat of any kind to make you have sex unwillingly.  
  4. The defendant shall not commit any act against you that would be one of the crimes listed above.

You can request that the defendant be ordered to have no contact with you.  This means that:  

  1. The defendant must stay a specific number of feet/yards away from you.  The distance that the defendant must remain away from you is listed on the order
  2. The defendant shall not contact you in any way.  This includes, but is not limited to, phone calls, text messages, emails, gifts and contact through friends, relatives, neighbors or anyone else, sending or posting messages on facebook, twitter or any other social media site, unless specifically allowed in the order.
  3. If you are already at a place and the defendant comes to that same location, the defendant must leave that place as quickly as possible.

You can request that the defendant be ordered to stay away from your work. This means:  

The defendant must stay away from the place where you work as long as the order is in effect.  The defendant must stay away from that workplace even if you are not there at the time.

You can request that the defendant be ordered to pay certain money. This means:

The defendant can be ordered to pay for costs related to the harassment such as medical bills, lost wages, money for the cost of changing locks.

You can request that your residential, workplace and/or school address not appear on the order.

If the defendant does not know your current residential, workplace or school address(s) you may request that these addresses be kept confidential.  This information would only be available to the court, the police, the district attorney or others specifically allowed by you or the court.  In all cases, this information is not available to the public.