Gone are the days when domestic violence was considered a "private, family matter." Today we recognize that domestic violence is a crime, and numerous studies have proven its long-term negative effects on victims and on the children of victims and abusers. As with all other types of crime, prevention and accountability rests with the community.

The most important thing neigbors, friends and family of a victim of domestic violence can do is support the victim. Getting out of an abusive situation is often a complicated and lenghty process, particularly if the victim is financially dependent upon, has children with, or fears the abuser. But keeping the door open for a victim to come to you for help is very important. Tell the victim that no one deserves to be beaten, offer to help in whatever way you can, and keep the lines of communication open so that when the victim is ready to leave, he or she knows there are people she can count on and who will support her. Victims of domestic violence often feel very isolated, and the support of others is crucial to maintaining victim safety and to getting out of an abusive relationship. Also, call the police if you see or hear an assault on the victim by the abuser and provide your name and address. It is only by working together as a community that we can successfully combat domestic violence.

Domestic Violence Unit contents.