Parent Reflection

Mindsets and behaviors that support and enhance mental wellness for parents and their children

Reflection helps parents pause, notice, and consider how everyday interactions support mental wellness—for both their child and themselves.

Mental wellness grows through small, consistent moments—not perfection.

Connection & Presence

  • When did I feel most present with my child this week?
  • What moments of connection felt natural or meaningful?
  • When was it hard to be present, and what got in the way?

Reflection prompt: What helps me slow down and truly listen?

Emotional Awareness (Mine & Theirs)

  • What emotions did my child express most often this week?
  • How comfortable did I feel sitting with those emotions?
  • What emotions did I notice in myself?

Reflection prompt: How do my reactions shape how my child learns about emotions?

Strengths & Growth

  • What strengths did I notice in my child this week?
  • When did I name effort, growth, or persistence rather than outcomes?
  • What strengths did I notice in myself as a parent?

Reflection prompt: How can I notice strengths more intentionally next week?

Coping & Resilience

  • When my child faced frustration or disappointment, how did I respond?
  • Did I allow space for struggle, or rush to fix?
  • What coping strategies seemed helpful?

Reflection prompt: What messages am I sending about mistakes and learning?

Belonging & Relationships

  • When did my child seem to feel valued or included?
  • How do I show my child they belong—especially during challenging moments?
  • How do family routines support connection?

Reflection prompt: What small rituals strengthen our sense of belonging?

Balance & Well-Being

  • What routines support calm and balance in our home?
  • Where do we feel rushed, overstimulated, or overwhelmed?
  • What small adjustment could support well-being this week?

Reflection prompt: What does “enough” look like for our family right now?

Parent Self-Compassion

  • When did I show myself patience or kindness?
  • Where am I being harder on myself than necessary?
  • What support do I need?

Reflection prompt: How can caring for myself model wellness for my child?

Closing Reflection

  • One thing I’m proud of as a parent this week is

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