Massachusetts law about engagement rings

A compilation of cases and web sources on what happens to an engagement ring after a breakup.

Table of Contents

Selected case law

De Cicco v. Barker, 339 Mass. 457 (1959)
"It is generally held that an engagement ring is in the nature of a pledge, given on the implied condition that the marriage shall take place. If the contract to marry is terminated without fault on the part of the donor he may recover the ring."

Bowser v. Daly, 2006 Mass. Super. LEXIS 532, 2006 WL 3293414 (Middlesex Superior Court)
"While both engaged in a heated altercation ..., it was undisputed that it was she who struck him, and the Court finds that this blow, rather than anything that he did, was the precipitating cause of their break-up. In these instances, he is entitled to have the ring returned."

Poirier v. Raad, 1995 Mass. Super. LEXIS 843, 3 Mass. Law Reporter 265 (Worcester Superior Court)
"The person who terminates an engagement is not necessarily 'at fault.' Some engagements may be terminated by mutual agreement. Some engagements may be terminated by one party because of the other party's improper behavior…"

Web sources

Engagement Rings, Mass. Legal Help, 2012
Briefly discusses who gets the ring both when a couple doesn't marry and after they do

Returning an Engagement Ring,
Discusses the issue of engagement rings nationally

Who Gets the Engagement Ring When the Wedding is Called Off?, Alan Pransky, Esq., March 2013
Also discusses what happens to the ring if there is a divorce



Within Massachusetts only

Within Massachusetts only


Reference librarians online Chat with a law librarian 
Reference librarians via email


Administrative office (no law library at this location)
2 Center Plaza
9th Floor
Boston, MA 02108
Last updated: May 8, 2018